1. Be realistic abt each other. Dont try 2 turn ur partner in 2 sumthng he or she is nt. Lets face it, guys - thre's only 1 Pamela Anderson in the world, and evn she has had her implants removed! Give ur gal a break & undrstnd tad her physical appearance is NOT going 2 chnge overnite with the help of a few facials or treatments. gals, Brad Pitt is taken, so u're gonna hve to do with wad ur guy is like! Chill out, love each other for what u r. Thre is mre to ur partnr den wad meets the eye.

2. Alwys talk thngs out. Now guys, I knw dis is not ur fave pastime of resolving issues, but u knw what? This wrks with the gals. Dnt make assumptions abt each others feelngs. Learn 2 xpress urslf beter so tad ur partner undrstnds wad u're angry abt,or hurt abt,or evn happy abt!When u stop tlking to each other frm the heart, its the beginning of the end

3.Do stuff 2gether. Make an effort 2 do thngs 2gether. Do sme sports or involve urselves in sme shared activities; something both of u enjoy or intrested in. It culd b as simple as watchng movies 2 gether, jus strollng hand-in-hand dwn Orchard Road. Watch soccer with him once in a while though the green patch on TV puts u 2 sleep in 3 secs. guys, do give in if ur gal ask for anothr day at window-shoppng, rather den suggest tad she go out w/ her girlfrends for "tad sort of activities" instead. If u'respending more time w/ ur friends rathr den w/ ur partner,its awarnng sign that u're driftng apart!

4.Meet each othr halfway.If he agrees to throw out tad rotten T-shirt w/ the "The_Rock" print,u shouldnt kick up much of a fuss if he asks u 2 keep ur room tidy.Thres gota be alil givng and tking in a relatnship, so learn 2 meet each othr halfway

5.Show ur love Buy her flowers or candy or perfume evrynow & den, evn if u hve been 2gther for 5yrs. Its wonderful 2 cntinue showng some1 dat u care for him or her. Cook him a special meal, paint him a Valentines Day card. Knit him mini-socks he cant wear (like for decoration purposes),buy him a pkt of milk 4 brkfast, or pack his wardrobe 4 him. so he knws u can still bromantic & lovng despite having been 2gether 4 quite a while

6.Respect each other.Stop makng jokes abt her hair or skin, or wadever it is u love 2 laugh at. Ask urself if she thinks its funny. if he has an inferiority complex abt his height, stop ogling at tall guys & mke him feel worse! Love is abt respectng each others feelngs and being sensitive 2 each othr at all times

7.bury the past. Stop bringng up the past. Gals. dont bring up the hapy thngs abt u & ur ex to ur guy, it wuld jus mke him jealous or unhappy. guys,dnt tlk abt the hapy times tad u had w/ ur ex or mention abt her in ur evry othr sentence as it wuld mke ur gal feel unhapy & she mite think tad u saying all this bcos u r gona get bck w/ ur ex or nt intrested in her anymre

8.Sit on ur jealousy. All of us go thru spells of insecurity at the beginning of the relatnship, bt dnt translate tad insecurity in 2 jealousy.If u're gona go through ur partner's mail and cupboard,& eavesdroppng on cnversations,u know sumthng is wrong- with u! Jealousy is like a poison tad slowly spreads thru the relationship before finaly killing it.Trust ur partner; love has 2 have trust in it

9.Keep ur commitments 2 each other. If ur partner is standing u up all the time & cancelling dates and breaking promises, u need to talk! If u're in a relationship, make ur partner ur priority and don't disappoint them if u can help it. Its really terrible when some1 promises to take u to dinner,& then calls to cancel it. Dont mke promises u cant keep. If ur partner starts to feel that he/she is nt impt enough to u, u may jus lose him/her.

10.Be honest. Honesty is not scowling at how awful she looks first thing in the morning, or telling him tad he has the biceps of a fly~! When we "bbe honest", we mean expressing your feelings when youre angry, sad or wadevr probs that youre unhappy abt.

Gregory posted at 11:44 AM,
Monday, August 13, 2007